So much within 1 month.

1 month has past since the last time I posted. Within this 1 month, lots have happened be it the good or the bad. I have started sch almost a month, learnt lots of new things, lots of stuff that i have never learn before.  However school’s still fun, getting to know more friends and to learn more new things.

However for the past few days, things turned. Friends told me that a schoolmate of mine was involved in an accident. I don’t really know her, however I have seen her a couple of times. Then the day before yesterday she passed away. It was a great blow to both her family and friends, she was known to be the nicest girl. What do girls do best? Bitching, and this girl never bitch about others, always working hard for her goal. She tried so hard studying, asking and learning because partly she was from a “lousier” stream and climb to a better stream.

Just as things were going bad, a friend of mine was her classmate. Of course comforting is what I should do as a friend, but I can’t do anything much. In 2006, one of her best friend died of dengue fever, now another classmate. Both have something in common – known to be the nicest people. When she asked why? I couldn’t answer, not even lying my way through. Last time I told her that maybe its God who wanted him back with him, but this time? again? So do that means that nice people have to die early? That friend of mine couldn’t bring herself to that girl’s wake. She can’t take the fact that people who are nice from her class are leaving.

I then self-reflected, what if its me who is in her shoe, I don’t think I can take it.  Especially the pain of losing your best friend. This friend is so nice that there is no reason that you can hate her. I can only ask my friend to see her classmate for the last time, if not, there’s no second time….lets hope there’s no third time of sending a friend of hers again.

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